Back Off !
" Wayehha manchab... de3la... '7afeeffa.... " Ya3ni in English she is a nightmare !
She calls her self a friend , is she a friend ? I don't think so !!!
When she calls and see her name appearing in my cellphone I get so nervous !
She takes advantage of me , she made me the official translator , editor and teacher for her whole family !
When ever I do anything she wanna do the same ! once she over heard that I enrolled myself in a gym she blamed me for not telling her !
She wanted once to borrow some clothes and I was like * don't even think about it * I never let any body wear my own clothes not even my sister !
We were both invited to one of our friend's wedding , that friend gave me three invitation cards and she did the same with her by giving her three invitation cards , but she was not satisfied she wanted more !!! she wanted four more !!!
The list is endless, she makes me sick she is shallow I don't really know how to get rid of her she made my life a hell , mom always says relax and everything will be alright but I can't get rid of that feeling i started to hate her I don't really wanna hate I just want her to back off
What would you do if you were in my shoes ?
Do you think I'm over-reacting, making a big deal of nothing ?
You are welcome to post your comments . Thanks :)
English : Friend
German : Freund (male) , Freundin (Female)
posted by Blossom @ 5/02/2005 02:03:00 AM
19 comments
19 Comments:
Well I have not been in a similar situation so I can't give you any advice on how to handle it.
Sorry but I kinda laughed while reading the post :P
Well , she is gonna make me nuts cuz I don't like hurting people !!! even if I hate them !
I'm not really asking for an advice , I just felt that I need to say something or in other words to scream . Ya3ni she is " bu3bu3" !
one thing to remember!
don't bottle it in! otherwise it will explode in a very ugly manner :/
might as well talk to her and let her know how she can annoy/bother you sometime. she might not accept it, but at least you've done your part.
goblin
I tried to do it indirectly but I think she doesn't understand or pretend not to !
She makes me lose face in public she is de3la and I don't know how stop her ! we are completly the opposite , I don't feel that I have privacy anymore !
Kuwaiti man
I know what you're trying to say !!! your situation is different from mine , that guy " 3enda e7sas " at least and he was there for you when you needed him !!!
That "de3la" girl in unbearable , I never asked her anything and never intended to do so !!! I just want her to BACK OFF ...
And don't get me wrong I'm not arrogant I'm down to earth person "bas ma 2bi a9eer wezarat shu2oon" know what I mean ?!
Iwanna live in peace , I wanna enjoy life , life is short and she gonna make my life even shorter
PS: I know the movie and it made me sick !
من خلال وصفج للبنت استنتجت الآتي:
يمكن تشبيه البنت اللي تتكلمين عنها وكأنها شعرة خشم.
شعرة الخشم اللت تطل شويه بره الخشم .. وجودها يفشل ومؤذي .. بس هم شلعتها تعور وتخليج تدمعين.
يعني كلا الحالات لازم تتأذين.
عرفيها على اي بنت اخرى من نفس النوع صدقيني راح تنساج.
I say find her a husband :P
I forgot to add: He should be a man that you hate of course ;)
lil alien
Wow that was a very "manish" description but I guess I know what you mean , the thing is I hate her behaviour and I don't wanna hurt her ! I don't wanna give a final bad impression but as soon she calls and "tema9ekh'7ha" I will stop her and that's final .
hopeless poet :
Surprize surprize she is married :/
I don't really know how can she manage to do that ! She thinks i'm always free cuz i'm single that's why it is easy for her to annoy and bother me more than anybody else !
PS: Yes I do hate her husband !
nice blog, its my first time here
inshallah i ll pass by more often
Relax
never hate anyone, keep the love flowing..
hating consumes you and no one else
and never hurt anyone s feelings
thats the worst thing you dont wanna do
ta7iyaati
q8ibloger
You are more than welcome and thanks for the compliment :)
YOu know ,I never show my anger cuz I don't wanna HURT her , what about me ? I have my own life too and yes hate consumes life . I will risk it this time and stop her cuz 5 years of annoying gotta be over !
Tantalize
Well , I believe that I should do the hard way which is telling her directly ! It is kinda hard to do it but I have to do it . It is good idea to let her read my post but I still wanna keep my privacy and this blog is my own little world I do not want her to be invloved !
life is short and life is a challenge I will take the risk and stop her
Thanks :)
Not without my heels :
Welcome to my simple blog .
Yeah She's gonna be nuts REALLY NUTS !!! It could happen and I hope it won't . And I'm glad that you as a girl comment on this post cuz some of the guys don't really know what we are talking about ;)
Thanks
NWMH :
I mean I really needed a second opinion an opinion of a female , which may represnt a similar situation or experience . I'm glad that you did give your opinion .
Thanks :)
NWMH:
That's so sweet :)
Oh..
As if you were describing my friend..
She is even worse
These people r sicK!!
rain drop :
Yes she is sick .. those kind of people are sick ... and they suck .
OMG ..I hate such freinds I can't tolerate them .. Just ignore her till she gets it ..
broken:
yeah , I will do it even if she doesn't get it :P
Thanks for the advice
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