Saying No At work

It has been six months sinceI got my job, I am happy with it but I never thought that this is what I'm gonna end up with , I know I still have some time to make other new decisions, but I am involved now and I don't want to take the risk jumping from one place to another .
It is good to be surrounded with different kinds of people good , bad ,witty ,silly, cheerful ,shallow,geek ,pathetic, smart ...and the list goes on . It is just that I had to expect the unexpected I was shocked by the behavior and attitude of some people . They steal my ideas ...O.K my ideas don't rock that much but they are my ideas and they also plagirizing them :( , they refer'em to themselves ( not only employeesbut also bosses !) , I've been through a lot unpleasant situations which made me hopeless . I've learned to say the miraculous "NO" it's a two letter simple word but has a magnificent effect , I still don't say NO directlty I indicate my refusal ;-) some people are too stupid to understand or perhaps they pretend not to understand to get their work done !! I believe that I need more time to learn saying NO for an answer .


No : English
Nein: German
Non: French